i came thisclose to death or serious injury yesterday. three or four inches and i would have hit a very big, very sturdy looking tree. i don't even really care that my car's totalled, and although i worry about the pther party's medical bills that i will probably have to pay, i feel very lucky to be alive.... somebody up there loves me, that's for damn sure. it just freaks me out that i caused the accident and that i was completely unaware of what was happening... i couldn't have prevented it. funny how a split second staring at a car headed straight for you can really put things into perspective. it makes me shudder. i could be dead right now. inches away.....